(The photo above is my own)
I'm sure everyone of us sometimes feels like we have got no one. You are in a swirl of confusion and anger and desperation and pain...you feel like no one cares. It's just you. Against the world. No one to turn to. You're just barely clinging onto the edge of a cliff, with no one to pull you up. You are in a dark, sad place with no company. You cry all the time and there is no one to wipe the tears away. There's no one to hug you and tell you it will be okay. There is no one to love you.
I believe we feel this not because the people we live with and see everyday aren't good enough, that they won't comfort you. No, it's because sometimes they can't comfort you. But God can.
"He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort other. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us." 2 Corinthians chapter 1 verse 4
"Do not be afraid of them; the LORD your God Himself will fight for you." Deuteronomy chapter 3 verse 22
So, He will be there to comfort us so we can comfort others. People who haven't gone through the same thing won't be able to help the people who are struggling. If we fall, and it hurts, but God helps us up, then we can be servants for Him, and help up the next person who falls. And remember, the Lord your God will fight for you. He will always be there.